What’s meant to be will be.
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
Deep down I’m a realist. Some have recently called it ‘fatalistic’ to which I strongly disagree. I do think we are all drawn a path way before we are aware of it. I feel we all have personality traits that are so ingrained in who we are that no nurture or training can curb them. I believe in things being “too coincidental” and “unavoidable timing”. That train of thought can take a very ugly turn when things are looking less than rainbows and butterflies. But then, was it meant to?? Is it really fatalist to know the odds and numbers are not in someone’s favor, in knowing all the possible pitfalls or is it mental preparation by the overly prepared to fight like hell to dig out from that hole instead if being caught off guard in the quicksand?
-Vane